New research shows that Brits are more obsessed with their phones than ever before - posting an average of 41 social media updates per week.
However, for some of us the constant sharing across social media channels, is wearing thin.
The study by the mobile network, Three UK, reveals that a third of us are especially tired of reading about negative issues that are regularly over-shared in social media feeds such as break-ups, pay rises and people’s health issues.
However we’re all ears when it comes to positive news such as weddings, weight loss and holidays, with four in five of us enjoying regular updates on these issues.
We are so attached to our phone that nearly 60% of us sleep with our phone by our bedside every night. And we are more likely to check our phones when we wake up (38%) than say hello to our partners (26%), or have a shower. One in 10 of us check our phone within 10 minutes of having sex and 4% claim they check their phone during the act.
Three’s research also found that half of respondents (54%) said they’d use their phone on a date, 45% would use it at the dinner table and 35% even said they’d use their mobile at a funeral.
Our obsessions don’t stop there, 28% of us would ring someone more than three times if they didn’t pick up and 27% of people think WhatsApp messages should be replied to immediately.
It seems we’re becoming a nation of over-sharing every aspect of our lives. 18 million* Brits have used their phones to share risqué photos of themselves, with 16% taking selfies in their bathroom. Seven per cent even admitted they’d taken a selfie on the toilet.
However it’s not just us mere mortals who are guilty of revealing too much, celebrities are oversharing and also guilty of not checking their social posts either. Little Mix, rapper Bow Wow, and Nikki Minaj, have all been victim to social media slip ups.
The survey also found that 40% of us want people to put their phones away at gigs and concerts and that 27% are tired of people constantly taking photos on nights out.
Sylvia Chind, head of devices and products at Three, said: “We all love to share stuff, whether it’s our holiday photos, dancing ponies or the latest cat meme. As the network that loves data we give our customers the opportunity to share content and update their status to their heart’s content.
“This research suggests that we just need to be a little more aware of our surroundings and the appropriateness of when and where we share. We can’t forget that we all still need to make the most of our experiences and not live it all through our mobile screen.”
Celeb social media slip ups
· Little Mix posted to their Instagram, forgetting to delete their social media manager’s email from the post. Oops.
· Rapper, Bow Wow tweeted whilst he was drunk driving and consequently got arrested.
· Rita Ora said she’d release a new single if she got 100,000 retweets. She got nowhere near enough and so took the Tweet down.
· Susan Boyle had an album party that had the unfortunate hashtag #Susanalbumparty.
· Nikki Minaj posted a picture from her bedroom with something on the floor that she insisted was a microphone but looked a lot more erotic.
Top tips on phone decorum
Psychologist Amanda Hills, a specialist in addictions and positive behaviour change shares her advice on phone decorum;
Keep it upbeat – ‘People enjoy posts about weddings and holidays because they’re positive. Keep your posts upbeat and light hearted.’
Take a digital detox – ‘Whether it’s not signing in to Facebook on weekends or switching your phone off an hour before bed, you can start gradually and then take more time offline as you go.’
Switch off – ‘Turn off alerts so you don’t have to feel like you have to respond to every message, Tweet and email immediately. As humans we’re programmed to respond to alert noises, so the sound makes us feel anxious about replying to messages and emails.’
Think before you post – ‘Think carefully about what you post before you upload it. We post to social media because we want to portray ourselves in a certain way, but sometimes people make bad decisions on what to post.’